About Jealousy

Most everyone experiences a visit from jealousy, the nasty green-eyed monster, at some point in their lives - whether it's over a best friend's career success or a gorgeous person flirting with their loved one. We tend to think of jealousy as a single emotion, but it is actually a mixture of a whole bunch of feelings; it can manifest itself as sadness, hurt, anxiety, fear, loneliness, paranoia, self-doubt, anger, and even extreme rage. While we can't necessarily stop this unpleasant sentiment from dropping in from time to time, we can control how we choose to act when it hits. When it consumes our thoughts or triggers behavior that can harm relationships or another person, that's when jealousy is truly a monster. The first step in breaking free from jealousy's grip is recognizing the problem, which your results on the Jealousy Test will help you do. The second is taking a deeper look at the real root of the problem: for every jealous feeling there is an emotion lurking behind that is much more significant than the jealousy itself. Jealousy is just the finger pointing at the fears that we are afraid to face. More often than not, the culprit is a feeling of low self-worth and a fear that we are not good enough to hold on to the things that matter most to us.

results of Your Jealousy Test
Jealousy

Your score = 0

What does your score mean?
Most people experience a certain amount of fear that their loved one could leave them for someone else. After all, these things happen, and when they do, it is usually very painful. You, on the other hand, appear to have a complete lack of jealous feelings. If you were honest with yourself while taking the test, this means that you are extremely secure, strong, and independent. You know that if your partner ever leaves you, you will survive with your self-esteem and dignity intact. You realize that even though you might love your partner very much, s/he is not the only fish in the sea, and that you would eventually find happiness with someone else.

digital love;
10:03:00 PM

well .. i'm back ...
had a busy week ..
first it was my birthday ~~
well .. thanks guys ... a really big thank you to ya all ..
went to marina to makan .. received a great present but the best thing is that ya all were there to celebrate wif me .. =) thankies
i think it was the first time celebrating wif my friends ... and it felt good

anyway .. then i had ogl camp ..
and something happened in the camp which i would like to say a big SORRY to all those affected ...
it was juz a trick ya .. which kinda worked on the wrong ppl ..
well .. at least i know u all are so nice to me. .. sorri k ..
for someone .. lunch on me k .. haha

then ytd went to the roc chalet. ..
well the chalet was nice
the bbq was great
but ...
i guess some of ya know k ..
dun need to write it all out ..

so .. had a tired week ... need some long awaited rest ...
juz woke up after 12 hours of sleep ..
3 weeks more to opening of school
so many things to do ... so little time ...
sigh

digital love;
11:46:00 AM

Thursday, December 04, 2003

i think this is damn true ...

Sagittarius & O-Type
November 23 - December 21
for Men

Personality: Optimism is a winning feature of yours. This and your enthusiasm for everything you're interested in will bring you far in all your endeavors. You are blessed with great friends and family that will support you even in your darkest of hours. However, you are quick to pick yourself up after any failure.

Love Tendency: You are very familiar with passionate romances. Your persistence usually results in your favor when it comes to chasing after the woman. However, that passion usually recedes when you finally have won the woman's heart. Basically, your attitude changes toward her.

Life: Your active lifestyle is set around a few set priorities. You are great at starting something new but find it difficult to finish. This is because you tend to lack the enthusiasm to research or do the actual physical part of it. You need to work on following through with your work.

Good Match: A-type Aries and B-type Gemini and Leos are great matches who will treasure your love and give even more in return. You will be attracted to a person who enjoys helping out others and who is involved in the community. A-type Sagittarius and A-type or B-type of Aquarius are bright people who enjoy just doing that.

digital love;
11:39:00 AM

Tuesday, December 02, 2003

hey .. thurs go marina ?? or ??
any suggestion ?

digital love;
10:46:00 AM